100 Ways to Praise Your Child

A friend had a list like this one pinned up in her kitchen.  I found some similar ideas online.  I love being able to catch my child being good, and the way her face lights up when I say some of these things.

Wow • You’re on target • Way to go • Excellent • You’re special • Neat work
You are fun • You’re a real trooper • I like your attitude • Super star • Good effort
Looking good • You brighten my day • Top work • Well done • You’re a treasure
That’s very thoughtful of you • Outstanding performance •Let me give you a kiss
You’re fantastic • I knew you could do it • What an imagination • Good teamwork
I’m so proud of you • You’re a legend • You’re on top of it • You’re catching on
How smart • Now you’ve got it • Good job • You are so clever • That’s incredible
You are just delightful • That’s beautiful • You’re a winner • You make me laugh
You make me happy • It’s nice being with you • Dynamite • Hip, Hip Hooray
Magnificent • Beautiful sharing• You’re important • Great job • You’re the best
You’re on your way • Exceptional performance • You’re spectacular • I’m impressed
You are a darling • Beautiful work • Good for you • Bravo • You are exciting to watch
You’re so precious • Fantastic job • Great discovery •You’re a champion • Awesome
Marvellous • You are very responsible • Terrific • Nothing can stop you now
You’re growing up • You tried hard • You figured it out • Remarkable job• You’re A-OK
You’re unique • What a good listener • That’s really nice of you • You inspire me
You mean a lot to me • You’re a good friend • You deserve a big hug • That’s super
You are an absolute gem • You’re incredible • Now you’re flying • That’s really creative
That’s correct • Phenomenal • Hooray for you • Great work • You’re very caring
You made my day • You mean the world to me •You’ve discovered the secret
You’re a joy • You did that really well •You’re my buddy • I trust you • That’s perfect
Keep up the good work • You’re wonderful • I like you a lot • You’re sensational
I like the way you did that • Thank you for helping me • I LOVE YOU SO MUCH

Only four things matter

I was reading an article recently about child rearing and parenting styles.  It was long, but at the end was a quote I have been thinking about ever since I read it, because it strikes me as such good advice.

The writer is listening to a talkback radio programme where they are discussing what makes for a good childhood when an older lady calls in. “As a great-granny,” she says, “I have a longer perspective than most callers. Four things matter - only four things. Love, listening, trust and justice.”

Love.  Listening.  Trust.  Justice.